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See, biologically speaking, men are attracted to younger women, because younger women tend to be more fertile.

It seems to me that this relationship is moving too fast, if you're already talking about moving to another country and don't know anything about his culture.

In any case, a lot of these relationships are just flings.

It's growing all over the West and in North Africa.

Her precise duties can vary from lovingly criticising you in front of your husband, taunting you with scathing remarks while your husband is not around and haunting you in the middle of the night, even in the privacy of your own bedroom!

As a mother-in-law in Pakistan, she also holds the divine right of telling you exactly what she thinks of your relationship with your husband (her son first) and will offer all kinds of unsolicited advice, whether you want it or not. Of course, you must never let him feel like you are unhappy because then he will get hurt and being blinded by the pain of the ‘unfair pressure’ you put on him, will be left with no choice but to divorce you – possibly via a text saying, And tadaa, you’re divorced. To marry this highly eligible bachelor you must impress him. Apparently they never had any of those things before his highness met you. You, dear ladies, will be his property and he will not ‘allow’ you to hang out with male friends (only immodest girls do that).

It is just part and parcel of the legacy of being a Pakistani mother-in-law. No, not with your good looks, charm or personality, this pauper… But don’t take this lightly at all, there can, and have been, huge fights over dowry; sometimes, in a rage of greed they burn you or even kill you for not bringing that last toothpick left in your house! You will have to live with over a dozen other people in a small, cramped house. Not only do you live with his parents, you share space with his three other brothers and their families. Do not pester him into letting you go for a movie with your friends because this may result in him calling you all sorts of names, from dogs and cats to mothers and fathers – or, he will go crying to his mother, who will sympathise with all her heart and this little tête-à-tête will result in him texting you, 6.

I know that if you are raped, you are the one in trouble, not the men. Once we were at a presentation in Congress, and I moved my foot over and spilled my glass of water on the carpeted floor of the room and he was very upset, also earlier because we barely found the room in time because I left the room details in the office by mistake and he was hungry and wanted to eat (it was like a luncheon). But, he was one of the biggest patriots of the USA that I had ever met. I realize he approached you (another warning sign), but older women who seek younger men in the USA are called cougars.

From what other women have said on here about how in numerous Islamic nations it's not proper to date an older woman, I worry about your situation. The Pakstani man I worked with wasn't by any means a radical. I actually don't approve of labeling women like this, but such things are beyond my control.

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