Dating someone who used to be promiscuous
It is existentially true that meaning is where we find or make it.
For a priest, monk or nun, celibacy is spiritually meaningful.
But I consider it a gross oversimplification to reduce motivation in the case of sexual promiscuity to pure biology. Particularly to the extent it remains unconscious and, therefore, unintegrated into and disconnected from the conscious personality.Preference for frequent sexual contacts is not necessarily the same as being sexually indiscriminating.The latter, in women, indicates a possible compulsive, and therefore, pathological quality to the excessive sexual behavior, referred to traditionally as .) Such indiscriminate or sometimes even random sexual behaviors can be commonly seen in various mental disorders such as psychosis, manic episodes, substance abuse and dependence, dissociative identity disorder, as well as borderline, narcissistic and antisocial personalities, and can, in fact, often be partially diagnostic of such pathological conditions.But when women openly and aggressively express their sexuality like men, we tend to view them as mentally ill, promiscuous, sinful or evil vixens.To be fair, what's good for the goose is good for the gander.