Dating jamaican woman
I haven’t caught him cheating or anything but I can admit that the way we met was a bit shaky.I do love him but I’m not rushing into any situation.I apologize if i insult any one but the 'stereotype' that Jamaican men have many women, is actually a FACT.Sorry to hear Anonymous, but there is nothing uniquely 'Jamaican' about this behavior.I’m not sure if it’s my insecurity or what but we’ll see. Whoa reading all these comments were very disheartening. I read all these horror stories and I get discouraged. I realise that we almost have the same experience... In Ochi, I met a handsome and sweet tour guide, he is really older than me but he looked younger, so I felt in love with him, and he asked my number and asked to see me several times he was so kind with me , a real gentleman!I, myself have been dating someone from Montego Bay. He has asked me to marry him and move to Jamaica with him. I'm truly in love with him but these comments are scaring me to death. they do seem to father children with different women, and see many older guys having children with girls in their 20's. When I came back to Europe,we called each other everyday, he told me good words (I never loved a girl as much as you, I don't need your money, I want to win my own to take care of you, I'll treat you as a queen, blah blah blah) and sold me dream. and after a while he started to ask me money (for medecine, to buy him a new phone, a shaver, etc...) but he knows I'm a student!In fact, I have a live poll running on this site asking what makes Jamaica special; inevitably the majority says it is our people - not merely the beaches, food or music.
But i didn't listen, i felt i had done enough looking into to who he was and came to the conclusion that he was different from the typical "stereotype of Jamaican men".I hate that people are okay with deceiving others for gain. I am at a crossroad now because my guy has been telling me to watch for red flags and so far a few have popped up.I’m not sure if it’s my insecurity or what but we’ll see. I’m currently engaged to a fireman in Jamaica who also does tours. So far he’s been okay besides being jealous and thinking he knows everything.Google like terms about this with other developing or less developed countries and see for yourself- you will be surprised.That said, I maintain that Jamaican (men are women) are some of the best, fun loving and true souls on planet earth (and perhaps in heaven :-).