In the online job market it’s trivially “cheap” to submit one more for one more role, so employers receive hundreds of unsuitable suitors for every open position.Online apartment-hunters and apartment-owners face similar levels of inundation and frustration. During a 3-month period of what felt like an Ok Cupid binge, the "Hourglass Theory" materialized in my mind and I couldn't help but share it with my cubicle friends nearby.The Hourglass Theory explains the phenomenon most of us became familiar with as early as high school, but it personally hit me the hardest in college..then again in the real world. The shape of the top half of an hourglass represents the available dating pool for a man and the bottom half represents that for a woman.(Coffee Meets Bagel recently switched to a model with more, but still limited, daily matches).Perhaps the saddest part of online dating’s tragedy of the commons is that matches, unlike fish, are not remotely interchangeable.
“We have a phrase for these things: just blame it on Bumble,” says Mick.
For example, after a match is made, women only have 24 hours to start chatting or else the match disappears.
Any worries that responding too quickly will signal over-enthusiasm are allayed because it’s common knowledge that the app leaves no choice.
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